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Impamvu abakobwa beza badakunze kubona abagabo, banababona ntibubake ngo rukomere

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Impamvu abakobwa beza badakunze kubona abagabo, banababona ntibubake ngo rukomere

Abantu benshi baganira ku bakobwa n’abagore usanga batanga ingero ku bakobwa babona abagabo ndetse n’impamvu zabo, akenshi bavuga ko abagore barongorwa atari babandi b’ibitangaza ahubwo ko bamwe bo hagati (bafite ubwiza budashamaje) aribo babona abagabo bakubaka rugakomera.

Twifashishije Ubushakashatsi bwakozwe na www.quora.com ndetse na The Standard Media.co.ke bugaragaza ko bene abo bakobwa b’ibitangaza (Bagarara ko bafte ubwiza urebeye inyuma) usanga biremereza, barebwa na buri mugabo kenshi ugasanga bakunda ubuzima bworoshye.

Hari abagabo banenga imyitwarire ya bamwe muri aba bakobwa mu gihe abandi bagabo cyane cyane benshi bafite amafaranga bakoresha aba bakobwa nk’ibikoresho bibaha ibyishimo byo mu gihe gito.

Uzumva umugabo abonye umukobwa mwizaabaze mugenzi we ngo “Ubona uriya mukobwa yakubaka urugo rugakomera mu by’ukuri?”

Abakobwa benshi bagaragara nk’ibitangaza usanga barakiriye ubuzima babayemo, kuko baba bakunze kubaho mu buzima bworoshye, aho babaho nk’igisubizo cya bamwe mu bagabo bakunda kwishimisha.

Usanga umugabo bajyanye kwishimana uyu munsi atariwe basubiranyeyo bitewe n’uko yumva ko kuzengurukana n’abagabo benshi aribwo buzima.

1. Abakobwa b’ibitangaza usanga ari beza kuberekana

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Abakobwa beza abagabo bakunda kubasohokana ariko ntibakozwe ibyo kubagira abagore

Abagabo bakoresha aba bakobwa mu kuberekana, kugenda bakirana nabo ku muhanda, mbese ni abo kwereka inshuti zawe gusa no kwerekana ko kugendana n’uwo mukobwa hari urwego uriho.

Abagabo bakoresha aba bakobwa usanga akenshi hari n’abafite abagore ariko kubera bafite amafaranga bakabakoresha nk’igikoresho cy’imyidagaduro.

2. Umukobwa uzi ubwenge agomba kwiga iyi si dutuyeho

Umukobwa agomba kwimenya, kumenya ingaruka z’imyanzuro afate ifite ku buzima bwe buri imbere, niba ahisemo kuba igikoresho cy’abagabo azakomeza muri iyo nzira ndetse n’amafaranga ashobora kuyabona akanishimisha ariko nyuma bikarangira asigaye wenyine nta musore ushobora kumuganiriza ku bijyanye n’ubukwe.

3. Ni igisebo

Ni igiseboo kubona umukobwa ahinduka igikoresho cy’abagabo, buri umwe agukoresha uko yifuza, ese utekereza ko umuryango wawe wo uba uwutera agahinda?

Iyo umuryango wawe umaze kukurambirwa urakwirukana, niyo utakwirukanye babona ko ntacyo ukimaze, abagabo bagusohokanaga ukiri mu buto iyo utangiye gukura babona ko ntacyo ukimaze nta wuba akikwitayeho.

4. Ubwiza bw’umukobwa bushingiye ku isura burarangira

Umugore mwiza ntiyita kugaragaza ubwiza bwe ahubwo yita ku cyamufasha kubaho neza mu gihe kiri imbere, akarangwa no gushyira mu gaciro no gutekereza ku muryango we w’ejo hazaza. Ubuzima bugira agaciro iyo ujyanishije ubwiza bwawe no kubaka umuryango uboneye.

5. Gushinga urugo birubahisha

Iyo umugore yarongowe arubahwa, mu muryango abamo, abaturanyi bamuha agaciro, kuba umugore bihabwa agaciro iyo ari mwiza bigaragarira mubyo akora kandi aniyubaha.

Mu rukundo abagabo bakunda abakobwa beza, ariko uko abakobwa berekwa ko bakenewe usanga batangira kwishyira hejuru, bigatuma abagabo babareka, bikaba impamvu zo gukomeza kubaho wenyine kuko bageraho bakamushiraho, uko agenda asaza niko bigenda biba bibi kurushaho.

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